A Shoutout to Single Girls

How can things be so unfair? When a guy is single, available, and all over the place; he’s coined as a bachelor. The type of guy who would be difficult for ladies to snag because he’d always be unpredictable, unattainable, and infamous. He is the man that every girl would chase for, simply because, he's the one that all the other girls want.

On the other hand, when a girl is single— she'd most likely be referred to/seen as the “unwanted” one-- the average type whose looks can make guys look or glance her way, but would still come short in making them want to have a relationship with her. See the disparity?

But what if a girl really, truly, genuinely doesn’t want to be in a relationship and would opt to remain single?? Does that connote mediocrity and insecurity on her part?? I don't think so. For just as guys have the freedom to decide whether they want to commit or not, so do girls, have that right, too.

We CAN BE single, simply because WE WANT IT THAT WAY.

Not because attraction, seduction, chemistry, fate, destiny, serendipity (and stupidity! :|) deprived us of some knight-in-shining-armor who’d be all too willing to whisk us away into his kingdom and lavish us with insurmountable sweetness and mushiness for all eternity.

If you look closely, a lot of single girls are way, way, way more likable and prettier than those who are committed. Don’t even get too airy and obnoxious with a girl, thinking that the reason on why she is single, is because no other guy likes her. You are totally wrong.

&& girls, don’t even think that since you are single- no one likes you. Don’t you ever think that you are unattractive, unwanted, inadequate, blahblahblah. ERASE those thoughts! Whisk that away of your mind, dear. THAT IS NOT TRUE AND WILL NEVER BE TRUE.

We are all beautiful in so many ways. We have assets that we tend to overlook because our society has set up standards on what is  considered beautiful, when actually all of those just distort our perceptions and outlooks. So, instead of wasting precious time whining on something so temporal and chasing someone who can't appreciate your worth-- better enjoy the experience of being single. There are so many ways that make singlehood so HOT- HOT-HOT! 

Embrace it. Love it. Live it.

So, Indulge yourself. Express what you really feel. Do what you want. Go where you want to go. Be with whoever you want to be. Cultivate your personality. Mold yourself to be someone you really want to be. Be your own idea of what perfection is!!! Rock the streets and flaunt yourself with that superfluous ego and confidence that makes you oh-so awesome!

Friday, December 28, 2012

Daily Journals, Love and Relationships, Personal, Singlehood